For years, I played the game well.

There was a time when I measured my worth by what I could get in return from a relationship. I used charm and transactional exchanges to keep people at a distance, even when I longed for something deeper.

It wasn’t about connection. It was about control and making sure I never felt vulnerable.

I spent years trying to control the outcome, thinking that would lead to the security I craved. But no matter how much I tried, the security I was searching for wasn’t in the games I was playing. The real strength was in finding the courage to let them go.

I was so focused on playing a role. Being the woman I thought men wanted. That I never stopped to consider what the right kind of man, a high-value man of capacity, was actually seeking.

When I finally stepped back and asked myself, “What am I chasing, and why? What for?” that’s when I saw the real disconnect. I realized I had been pursuing the wrong things through my choices and decisions. And by doing so, I wasn’t building anything meaningful.

That question became my turning point. It forced me to stop and look at the relationships I was attracting, and the direction I was heading.

I wasn’t aligned with what I really wanted because I had never been clear with myself. Once I became honest about my desires, I started attracting the kind of connection that could lead to something real.

That shift changed everything for me.

Today, I’m in a loving, provider-led relationship where I feel genuinely supported and understood. And it’s no accident. I’ve cracked the code. My 7Fs Formula has helped me (and now other women) find the clarity and connection they’ve been searching for.

If you’ve been wondering why your relationships don’t seem to go anywhere, or where all the high-value men have gone, it’s time to approach things differently.

The men you’re seeking, those with the capacity to truly provide, are out there. But to attract them, you need to be clear about what you want and align with an understanding of what they’re looking for.

When you have this clarity, you stop getting caught up in the cycles that lead to frustration or dissatisfaction. Instead, you start creating connections that are real and lasting.

Ready to break free from the patterns holding you back and start attracting high-value men who have the capacity to provide?

Let’s talk.

Together, we’ll uncover what these men are seeking and how you can show up as the woman they can’t resist.

If you can spare 20 minutes, then I’ll show you exactly how I can help you attract provider-led relationships.